Original practice question
Some people think grandparents should take a larger role in raising their grandchildren. To what extent do you agree or disagree?
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Position
Partly agree: grandparents are often the only adults free at three o’clock, and a larger role becomes exploitation when it is assumed rather than agreed and paid for in time.
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Body paragraph 1
- Point
- A grandparent who can cover the hours between school and the end of a shift keeps a parent in work.
- Explanation
- Nurseries charge for those hours, and many close before the shift ends. A familiar adult at the school gate is not a sentimental extra. It is the difference between a job and a resignation. Where the grandparent is willing and well, refusing that help on principle is a luxury.
- Example
- A nurse whose mother collects the child at three, gives tea, and hands over at seven, which the hospital rota would not flex.
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Body paragraph 2
- Point
- The same arrangement fails when the grandparent is treated as a free nursery with no right to say no.
- Explanation
- Knees, appointments and a life of their own are real constraints. A "larger role" written as a duty also hides the state’s missing hours: if every family is assumed to have a spare adult, the after-school club is never funded.
- Example
- A grandmother expected to cover five afternoons after a hip operation because the family had no other plan and no budget for a club.
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Conclusion
Welcome the role when it is chosen and limited. Do not build a childcare policy on an unpaid relative’s knees.